Proper Toasting Etiquette
Here are a few pointers on the correct way to toast:
- The host of the party or event should always be the first one to start
the toast. This person should also be the one to make sure that everyone's
glass is full before the toast is performed. For a wedding toast, it
is still very traditional for the best man to perform the toast. Many
people tend to think that the disc jockey or band is responsible for
the toast, but this has never been true.
- When you give a toast, you should be standing. Make short, simple
and sincere comments.
- If there is a large group of people, it is not mandatory to clink
your glasses when the toast is made. Instead, just raise your glass
and take a sip. If it is a small group of people, you should always
look the person in the eyes when you clink their glass. As you clink
your glasses you can say something like "Cheers, Prost (German),
Skoal", or whatever your nationality is.
- After the toast, the recipient, if there is one, SHOULD NOT DRINK
(this would be like patting yourself on your own back if you do). Instead,
he or she should stand and respond with thanks or by offering another
toast. During the toast, if the recipient is already sitting, there
is no need to stand unless the recipient would like to return the toast.
- Although traditional, alcohol is not necessary to perform the toast. Sparkling
fruit juice, punch or even pop may be used. It is your choice.
- It is not considered customary to applaud toasts.
Who Performs the Toast?
- The host of the party or event should always be the first to offer
- For weddings, the best man should initiate the first toast.
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